What does the ring bearer actually do?
The ring bearer's job is simple and sweet: he walks down the aisle carrying the rings (or a decorative stand-in — the real rings often ride with the best man!) just before the bride. It's a starring role in one of the most photographed moments of the day, which is exactly why his outfit deserves a little thought.
Ring bearer outfit ideas
Most ring bearers wear a scaled-down version of the groomsmen's look: dress pants or shorts, a button-up shirt or vest, and — the piece that ties it together — a bow tie. A handmade boys' bow tie in your wedding color instantly makes him look part of the crew without a full miniature suit.
Match him to the wedding party
For a polished look, match the ring bearer's bow tie to the groom, the groomsmen, or the flower girl's sash. Because our boys' bow ties come in the same shades as our Daddy & Me and adult styles, coordinating is easy — just pick your color on the Shop by Color page. Popular ring bearer choices include navy, burgundy, sage green, and classic black.
Keep it comfortable
Little ones don't sit still, so comfort matters. Our bow ties are pre-tied with an adjustable strap and secure hook closure — easy to put on, easy to keep on, and no fiddly knots. Kids sizes fit ages 2–8.
A sweet way to ask
Popping the question to your littlest VIP? Add our "Ring Security" note card to the order — a charming way to ask a special little boy to be your ring bearer, delivered in a gift box ready to give.
Shop ring bearer bow ties
Browse our boys' bow tie collection, or grab a matching Daddy & Me set so dad and the ring bearer can twin down the aisle.