If you've seen the "ring security" trend on Pinterest or Instagram, you know exactly what we mean: swap the usual ring pillow for a tiny bodyguard in a bow tie, complete with a mini "Ring Security" badge or sign. It's playful, it's photogenic, and it gives your ring bearer a role that feels bigger than just carrying the rings. Here's how to pull the look together.
What Is the "Ring Security" Look?
Instead of the traditional satin pillow, your ring bearer carries the rings in a small box, briefcase, or pouch, and dresses the part of a serious little professional guarding precious cargo. Sunglasses, a stern expression for photos, and a sharp bow tie are the whole outfit. We include a complimentary "Ring Security" note card with orders, a fun keepsake you can tuck into the ring box or hand to your photographer for a candid shot.
Building the Outfit
The bow tie does most of the work here. For the classic security detail aesthetic, you can't go wrong with a crisp look from our black or white and ivory collections, paired with a white shirt and dark pants or suspenders. Prefer something a little more fun and less formal? A pattern or novelty print, think tiny stars, checks, or a bold color, gives the security bit a wink without losing the polish. Every option is handmade and pre-tied, so getting your ring bearer dressed takes minutes, not a wrestling match.
Match the Wedding, Not Just the Trend
The security look works with almost any wedding palette. Browse Shop by Color to find a shade that ties him into your bigger color scheme, navy and royal blue and silver and gray both read official without feeling costume-y, while softer tones from our wedding accessories collection keep him coordinated with the rest of the wedding party.
Make It a Family Bit
Want to take the joke one step further? Dress dad or the groom in the same color as head of security with a matching Daddy & Me bow tie set, kids and adult sizes made to match, so the whole security team is dressed in coordinating gear for photos. Add a pocket square to dad's look for a slightly more put-together finish while the ring bearer keeps his tie clean and simple.
Comfort for a Long Day
Ring bearers rarely sit still, and security duty means even more running around than usual. That's exactly why every bow tie in our boys' collection is pre-tied with an adjustable neck strap and a secure hook closure, no scratchy fabric, no re-tying between the ceremony and the reception, and it's easy to remove the second picture time is over.
A Few Ring Security Outfit Ideas
- Navy bow tie, white shirt, sunglasses, and a mini "Ring Security" sign
- Black bow tie, suspenders, and a tiny briefcase for the rings
- Matching Daddy & Me set in the wedding's main color, dad as backup security
- Patterned or novelty bow tie for a lighter, funnier take on the trend
- Silver or gray bow tie for a sleek, formal detail look
Ready to Suit Up Your Ring Security?
Shop the full Little Gentleman collection for kids' bow ties, or explore Daddy & Me sets to match him with dad. Every order is handmade to order, with a complimentary gift card, including our "Ring Security" card, included.